The Secret Language of Cravings: What Your Body Needs (and How to Give It What It Asks For!)
- Princess Akeema
- 13 hours ago
- 5 min read

We’ve all been there. It’s late at night, you’re trying to be good, and suddenly… WHAM! A craving hit you like a ton of bricks. Cravings can feel overwhelming, whether it’s ice cream, chips, or a strange urge for pickles. But what if these cravings aren’t random? What if they’re actually your body’s way of whispering its deepest needs and giving you clues on how to fix them?
Forget strict diets and endless willpower. Let’s explore the fascinating world of Traditional Chinese Medicine (TCM) and learn how to crack the secret language of your cravings and give your body what it's truly asking for. Get ready to understand your body like never before!
The Five Flavors: A Map to Your Inner Self (and Your Next Snack)
In TCM, there are five basic flavors: bitter, sweet, spicy (or pungent), salty, and sour. Each flavor is connected to specific organ systems in your body and influences your emotions, energy levels, and overall well-being. Think of these flavors as messengers, each carrying a unique piece of information about what your body needs to thrive, plus a handy little guide on how to respond.
Let’s explore each flavor in detail:

1. Bitter: A Call for Calm and Clarity
Imagine you're feeling restless, anxious, and your mind is racing. Suddenly, you find yourself reaching for dark chocolate, a strong cup of coffee, or even leafy green vegetables. What’s going on?
In TCM, craving bitter foods can be a sign that your Heart and Small Intestine need some support. These organ systems are responsible for your mental and emotional well-being, as well as healthy blood circulation. When they’re out of balance, you might experience:
Restlessness
Irritability
Anxiety
Insomnia
A feeling of being ungrounded
Bitter foods have a cleansing action, helping to remove excess heat and toxins from the body. They can also stimulate digestion and promote mental clarity. So, instead of just battling that craving, why not give your body what it's truly asking for?
Helpful Bitter Foods: Dandelion greens, parsley, collard greens, mustard greens, arugula, kale, celery, corn, burdock root, sesame seeds.
Your Action Step: If you're craving bitter, try incorporating one or two of these foods into your diet each day. Sip on dandelion tea, add some arugula to your salad, or enjoy a small square of dark chocolate after dinner. Give your Heart a "hug" by also practicing calming activities like meditation or deep breathing.
2. Sweet: A Craving for Comfort and Energy
Do you often find yourself reaching for cookies, candy, or other sugary treats? While a little sweetness can be comforting, constant sweet cravings might indicate an imbalance in your Spleen and Stomach organ systems.
In TCM, the Spleen and Stomach are responsible for digestion and the transformation of food into energy. When these systems are weakened, you might experience:
Fatigue
Bloating
Worrying and overthinking
Low self-confidence
Mildly sweet foods can help to tonify Qi (energy) and support the Spleen and Stomach. However, it’s important to choose natural, whole foods that are only mildly sweet, rather than refined sugars, which can lead to blood sugar imbalances and further weaken these organ systems. The next time you reach for that sugary snack, remember there are better options to support your body!
Helpful Sweet Foods: Whole grains, fruits (apples, bananas, papayas, grapes, blueberries), vegetables (carrots, sweet potatoes).
Your Action Step: Swap those processed sweets for naturally sweet options. Enjoy a baked sweet potato with cinnamon, snack on a handful of blueberries, or whip up a smoothie with banana and spinach. Give your Spleen some TLC by also prioritizing relaxation.

3. Spicy (Pungent): A Need for Movement and Release
If you’re constantly reaching for hot sauce, chili peppers, or other spicy foods, your body might be telling you that it needs to move stagnant energy and release pent-up emotions. In TCM, the Lungs and Large intestines are responsible for circulating Qi and eliminating toxins. When these systems are blocked, you might experience:
Repressed grief and sorrow
Constipation
A feeling of being stuck
Spicy foods have a dispersing action, helping to move Qi and Blood and stimulating the release of sweat and mucus. However, it’s important to consume them in moderation, as too much spice can irritate the intestines. Instead of ignoring the heat, try fueling it with intention.
Helpful Spicy Foods: Turmeric, onions, scallions, radishes, ginger, wasabi, garlic, horseradish, chili peppers.
Your Action Step: Add a dash of spice to your meals to "fan the flames" of your digestion and circulation. Try adding ginger to your tea, sprinkling turmeric on your vegetables, or whipping up a spicy stir-fry. Also, consider practices that help you release emotions, such as journaling, dancing, or talking to a trusted friend.
4. Salty: A Desire for Strength and Grounding
Craving salty foods can be a sign that your Kidneys and Bladder need some support. In TCM, the Kidneys are responsible for storing your vital energy and governing willpower. When they’re deficient, you might experience:
Adrenal fatigue
Dehydration
Lack of willpower
Fear and anxiety
Salty foods can help to strengthen the Kidneys and support the dissolving of masses and the removal of moisture from the body. However, not all salt is created equal! Reach for these natural options instead of processed snacks.
Helpful Salty Foods: Miso, sea salt, sea vegetables, brine pickles, umeboshi plum.
Your Action Step: Focus on nourishing your Kidney energy with grounding foods and practices. Sip on miso soup, add sea vegetables to your meals, or try a warm salt bath. Reconnect with your "roots" by spending time in nature, meditating, or practicing gentle exercises like yoga or tai chi.
5. Sour: A Longing for Smooth Flow and Flexibility (Unleash Your Inner River)
If you find yourself constantly craving sour foods like pickles, lemons, or vinegar, it might be a sign that your Liver needs some help. In TCM, the Liver is responsible for the smooth flow of Qi throughout your body. When it’s imbalanced, you might experience:
Stress
Irritability
Anger
Headaches
Irregular menstrual cycles
Sour foods have an astringing action, helping to moisten and soften tendons and ligaments and support the flow of Qi in the Liver. So, instead of letting that tension build, give your Liver the support it craves!
Helpful Sour Foods: Fermented foods (sauerkraut, kimchi), vinegar, kefir, sour fruits (tart cherries, kiwis, tomatoes, grapefruits, oranges, lemons/limes).
Your Action Step: Support your Liver by incorporating sour foods into your diet and practicing stress-reducing activities. Add lemon juice to your water, enjoy a bowl of sauerkraut with your lunch, or try a gentle yoga flow. Unleash your inner river by allowing yourself to express your emotions freely and letting go of any pent-up frustration.
“Cravings aren’t your enemy. They’re messages from your body.”
Ready to Take Your Wellness Journey Further? Book a Session with Princess Akeema!
Understanding your cravings is just the first step. If you're ready to go deeper into your health and well-being, Princess Akeema can help you create a personalized plan based on the principles of Traditional Chinese Medicine.
Listen to Your Body’s Wisdom (and Take Action!)
Cravings aren’t your enemy. They’re a valuable source of information about what your body needs to thrive and a guide to taking action! By understanding the language of flavor through the lens of TCM, you can learn to nourish yourself on a much deeper level, creating greater balance and well-being in your life.
So, the next time you experience a craving, take a moment to pause and listen. What is your body asking for? And what small step can you take today to give it exactly what it needs?